Gabe`s 5th Birthday 2016

This year, Gabe`s birthday fell on our annual family trip, so the family was with him on his actual birth day. However, before we left I made a request to his teacher to allow him to have a class celebration. So, I bought a lovely heart shaped chocolate cake which was so so yummy and arrived at his school at 1.50pm, snack time. All the kids were already seated at the table and patiently waiting.

Gabe was so happy to see me and what more with a yummy cake. All the kids were so happy and happily singing away. The students & teachers made a laminated green birthday card for him. It was so sweet. And, there was a photo card for us to remember this day. Such a lovely photo.

Then, during our Korea trip, he got to celebrate again, this time with all the family. And yes, it was another lovely chocolate cake. He was so so happy with all the Happy Birthday singing. We couldn`t have asked for any better birthday celebration.

Here is the lovely big birthday card from his English preschool and the photo to remember by

And this one, from his special school teachers

And the Jeju Island celebration with the family

Gabe dearie, you`re doing really well and have become really naughty. Everything to our requests and questions are now met with `NOs` from you. But we love you so much and wish for nothing but happiness and joy for you. Continue to be healthy and curious and funny. Didi loves you too, though his actions often don@t reflect so. But trust me, he does in his own funny way.

Till another celebration next year sweetie...

A rare picture of us together

Happy World Down Syndrome Day 2016

Happy World Down Syndrome Day Gabriel!

So, we`re doing well, and Gabe is doing really well too! Come April, he will be moving uo to the bigger kids school at Hello Kids. The teachers have nothing but praise for him and how well he`s been doing. He has no problems with his basic living skills and can follow instructions really well. And, after discussing with his teachers, they feel Lucas would benefit not being in the same class as Gabe too. Because at the moment, it seems that Lucas has no interest in playing with other kids when Gabe is there and even tends to be whinier.

I`m hoping that by mixing with the bigger kids who can talk well, Gabe will be able to catch up with his speaking skills and learn to communicate more. Pretty excited to see how he fares in this new environment.

The only thing that is worrying us right now is potty training which Gabe is still not ready for yet at this moment. Let`s hope he`ll be fully trained by year end.

But other than that I`m really happy Gabe is doing so well, and we`re in a great place right now. He`s so funny and loving and has so so many funny dance moves, it`s hilarious to watch him copy. Sure, he`s not up to scratch with his speaking skills, but you should listen to the list of words coming out from his mouth now, it`s amazing how fast he`s picking up random words and just speaking it. His fine motor skills are getting so good, he loves doing the teddy bear threading game and has gotten so well doing it, compared to just 3 months back when he couldn`t thread it. It`s amazing how fast he`s learning.

All around the world, many families like mine are celebrating Down Syndrome today and many are creating awareness for Down Syndrome. Of course, we don`t just celebrate today, but everyday of our child`s life. But more so today so that all of us can come as one and voice out our joys & pride of having a special needs child and tell the world that it`s not the end of the world nor is it a bleak future and life. Instead, it`s about our journey filled with challenges, tears, laughter and pride.

For some, they will pray & ask that their child will be healed miraculously of Down Syndrome, that somehow God will take it all away and cure their child. for me, i believe there are miracles that our God can do like healing the injured, or healing the crippled, but this, this extra chromosome is the core existence of a human, embeded deep in their DNA. And praying for this to disappear is impossible, even for someone so powerful. I`m sorry if this offends anyone, but it`s what I think.

So, on this day especially, I`d like to ask for all of you who will and want to pray for Gabe, please ask that he will grow up healthy and strong, that his heart will stay healthy, that he wil be able to learn to fully speak soon and more importantly, that he will someday find a place in this world fit for him. That people will learn to fully accept special needs children. Pray that Gabe will grow up to be a creative, useful, independant individual who will be loved by many.

Gabriel, Mummy believes in you that you will be capable of many things and that you will be able to lead a fulfilling life. Continue to grow and be happy darling. Have fun and dance your funny moves, i love it.

Tokyo, We@re Home

Hellloooooo Everyone!! We are back in Tokyo after spending 2 very stressful months in Singapore. Kids didn`t go to school, means i see their cute faces 24/7 = craziness.

I am so relieved we have settled back here and the kiddos are going to school. Somepeace for me at long last. Don`t get me wrong, we did have tons of fun in Singapore, but sanity matters.

So, back to the school thingy. Gabe adjusted well nd he`s so happy. Teacher has said he`s grown up alot and participating well and eating well, soo they suggested that we should cnsider upgrading him to the bigger kids class. `m still thinking about it.

As for lil bro, well let`s just sa we have a very very unhappy camper here. He yelled and screamed and hung on so tightly to me. And, till date, he has done the STRIKE 6...or was it 7???? He refused lunch & even snacks. TEacher said he cried only for like 5 minutes after i left then was happy. But when came lunch, he turned into a lil Chucky, and on the 1st day, even threw his lunchbox onto the floor. So, they all ignored him and let him sulk.

And now, a week later, he`s still on a strike. Stubborn eh....and yes now he hears the car going into reverse parking, he knows it`s drop off time and starts crying n shaking his head. I take off his seat belt, he clings to it for dear life. I have to pry his hands from it. Then i tend to Gabe, and lil Chucky decides to try and head back into the car seat. Sigh....

It`s pitiful, but for my sanity it is necessary. I`m just going to let him be coz there`s really nothing i can do unless i take him out from school, which is a NO OPTION. We`ll see after 1 month how it goes. At least he`s eating decent breakfast and dinnr so I`m still not too worried.

Other than that, we`re good here, though it is still terribly cold and miserable.

Love to all at home from...CHUCKY

PreSchool Update

Yes, the kiddos are adjusting very well, even Lucas has warmed up and he`s now participating. No more cries during drop-offs. Only thing to work on, is that naughtiness.

Sagamiko Resort

I`ve been trying to find as many parks and open places as i can to bring the kiddos before we head back to Singapore for 2 months. So, last weekend we went to Sagamiko Resort about 1 hour plus away from Tokyo. HUge park mainly for camping, and a small amusement area for kids to play.

Weather was again perfect. Beautiful scenery high up. Lucas as usual, had heaps of fun sitting the rides and jus being outdoors. Gabe, on the other hand, whined at times coz he probably thinks the Ipad is much more fun. Anyway i dare say we will be back again next year to go camping in one of the gorgeous cabins there.

The only thing that irked me was that we stupidly didn`t stay for the supposedly gorgeous winter illumination. And, according to the husband: `Aiyah, all the same onelah, look nice on internet coz it`s photoshopped. In real it`s just normal everywhere same one`. What the.... So i suppose, dear hubby, an Alphard is an Alphard, why don`t you just charged the SAME price for a R Grade and a New one. After all, a car is jusr a car isn`t it???? Duh....blah

Oh yes, see Lucas eating? Those are the small fish full of calcium like our ikan bilis. Yup, Lucas just took them in his fingers and popped them into his mouth. And yes the food looks yummy, it tastes yummy.

Andersen Park@Funabashi

It has been raining and raining here, so any chance of good weather especially on the weekends, we`d quickly go to a lovely park or play area since the kids & us go crazy when we are all stuck at home. Somehow, they behave much better when they are having fun outdoors instead of trying to strangle each other at home.

One of these parks is Andersen PArk in Funabashi, about 1hour from our place. Huge park, just so lovely with the most awesome slide ever. Our backsides did sting after finishing the ride. Gabriel fell asleep awhile later and good riddance too coz he was being super whiny.

But Lucas, well Lucas wasn`t sleepy, the boy had tons of energy and he`s at the age where he want to explore. So i brought him round while Daddy took care of Gabe. We sat the bumper cars twice, walked and walked while he kept looking at those scary big crows. And coz i know him well, he should be pretty hungry by now and besides, it`s snack time at 3pm. So i asked him if he wanted some fries and he nodded vigorously. So we sat on the benches and lil rascal munched n munched away. Life`s fun being a kid.

Then, Daddy decided to join us and we just sat and played and waited till Gabe woke up. By then, it was darn chilly and round about time to go off. One of the best parks ever, definetely will be back.

October Cacth Up

We`ve been busy. Busy recovering from coughs, flu and fever. Yes, it`s going round and round our household, mostly starting and ending with Lucas. The boy, sigh, well let`s just say his immune system is really not too strong. And recently, he was diagnosed with Asthmatic Bronchitis. It all started with the cough which didn`t go away for 2.5 months. I had already brought him to our local ped a few times, but each time the doc would say it`s Ok, no congestion, until i just had it one day and headed to his birth hospital, Sanno. There the doctor immediately told me his diagnosis and Lucas had to use the nebuliser. Needless to say i was relieved that finally someone could tell me what was wrong. So i ended up buying the nebuliser and good thing coz few weeks later he had a bad cough again and needed it.

No idea what triggers this, but it could be an allergy, so I`m waiting till end week to see if he gets better, else we`ll have to do an allergy test.

But other than that, we`re all dandy here, the weather is superb now. The boys are having fun in school. Lucas is thriving there and seems to enjoy all the activities. Oh, he can say many words now, some well pronounced, some well, only i can understand.

Words Lucas can say:
Mo More = No More
More
Moo Moo (refers to his precious beheaded, turning black and disintegrating Moo Moo pillow) aka best friend
Four (he loves this number, i dunno why)
Five
Nine
Mine
Niiiii = Nice
Bye Bye
Dad Dad
Kor Kor
Ball
Bok = Bom (which means someone/something fell)
Cor = Corn (he love loves corn)
Pants
Hair
Head
Mose = Nose
Eaaaa = Ear
Jyache = Jacket
Ter = Water
Bowl
ManMan = Anpanman

Do you notice the many M words he can say? Yes, i noticed. And yet he can`t say Mama...whaaaat??? Ridiculous. Everytime i try to coax him, he just shakes his head...Grrrrrrrr And you know what, isn`t DadDad much much harder to say?? Unbelievable.

So anyway, we`ll end it with many pics taken over the past weeks, they boys happy and enjoying our beautiful weather.

And these are from the weekend`s trip to Tobu Zoo. I tell you what i love about Japan is that when the weather is cool n warm, it`s so much fun to visit all these kid friendly places where the kids just run around and do their monkey stuffs. The boys were thrilled, Lucas had so much energy after lunch he insisted on walking around and running. It was pure joy to see my boys so happy. I hate to stay in on weekends and to get out of Tokyo for the day is just too perfect.

We hope you all had fun too on the weekend!